My Boy

You know it is funny, even with a blog you are careful what you say so you don't hurt anyone feelings. But I am just going to talk in general. If you feel this applies to you...then let it, if not have a wonderful day!

Why as a mother do you notice EVERYONE thinks they know what is better for your child than you do? He is 3, he has a mind of his own, he knows how to make good choices....I know this because I am with him most of the time, I try to promote him to be honest with his mom & dad. If he says he does not want to do something, I am not going to push him. Why emotionally push your kids away? I am not a perfect parent......but I am perfect for MY son. We have made it this far, and have a really solid relationship. Others just need to realize, I understand you have rasied your kids....but look at them....those are the products of decsions you made early on in their lives, and how they learn to deal with the advirsities and peer pressure they faced throughout their lives......so let me be able to sit back in 20-30 years and look at my kids and be glad I made the decisions I made for him, which AS HIS MOTHER if feel it is for the best interest of MY SON!!!!! For when it comes down to it, I will be the one for the rest of his life to be held accountable for setting the begining stages of the ground work; the rest of his life would be based on. When the days ends, he can pull at your heart strings, and be a little devil. But the bottom line is that, We (mom & DAD) have entensively discussed the rearing of OUR child, and to this point I have yet to make a decision that is not discussed and backed by HIS DADDY!!!!!! And to some peoples surprise.....his dad is informed of more than you know....and will always be involed in ANY decison made about it....and for some reason Daddy usually sees it my way! Even though as a family we keep the schedule we keep, his daddy will ALWAYS be infomred of things that effect his son, good or bad, from him having a good day at school, to be invited to a birthday party, to tacky comments made infront of him that are totally inappropiate.What makes me wonder is why are people so different in front of others, just to be somthing they are not., are you trying to make me look like a bad parent in front of my husband.....if so, but your time and energy in to something you CAN accomplish! For those of you who insist on trying to raise other parents kids, and think you know best.....Clean your own back yard before you try to clean mine!!!! I get many compliments on my son, from his looks to him manners, to his imagination....I am very proud of my boy, and feel I have instilled some good values in him. I have a great D/C he attends while I am work, and they have played a vital role in his growth and development.....and my hat is off to them. For any of you who do not agree with the decisions we have made for our son....come see us in 10 years and lets look where he is at. I will not faulter in front of my boy, nor will I change my disipline or parenting just because others think he hung the moon.

Well I hope I have opened some eyse and not hurt any feelings.

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