Being True to Yourself....

What does this mean to you? I have been thinking about this alot lately.
What does it mean to be true to yourself?
Since I have had the Lap-Band done, I have been trying to keep myself in check to make sure I stay true to who I AM!!!! I have awesome friends around me who love me for me, and an awesome family that supports me alot. But am I portraying and giving off the vibe I want too? Are people seeing me the way I see myself? When is the point in your life where you really have to re-evaluate everything about your self. Your job, your friends, your clothing, your relationships, your beliefs, your food choices, etc....
Are you getting what you need to in life? Are you happy in your relationships? Are you sure where you are going in life....Are you happy with your life.
If the swine flu were to take you today have you completed what you thought you would by this time in your life, and are you happy???
I wake up every morning knowing that my family is the most important thing to me and with out them I could not be where I am at at this time.
There are some things I would change. But I believe that in the past 35 yrs I have been true to myself. There was one relationship that I thought was it...but as Garth Brooks said, " I thank God for unanswered prayers! "
My ex CSD, I thought was it, but you know...When Ray walked into my life, I knew that his arms is where I was going to spend the rest of my life. We have talked over the years, and Ray has met him, I talked to him the night I had Logan. I do consider him to be a dear friend, he will always have a place in my heart. But you know when I saw him I knew I had been true to myself and made the right decision. I am here now with an awesome husband, a WONDERFUL son, and some great experiences from my life that will make realize the path I have taken is the right one..
So ask yourself...Are you making your decisions to be true to YOU or to make others happy with YOU???